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EMDR Therapy That Goes Where Talk Therapy Can't

Some experiences resist being talked through. EMDR works differently — helping your brain complete the processing that got interrupted, so those memories lose their grip on your present life.

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What is EMDR — and why does it work?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy developed to help people process traumatic memories that the brain hasn't been able to fully integrate. When something overwhelming happens — or when relational injuries accumulate over time — the brain sometimes stores those experiences in a raw, unprocessed state. They stay "live," continuing to affect how we feel and react long after the event has passed.

EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements, tapping, or sound) to activate the brain's natural processing system. It doesn't require you to talk through your trauma in detail. Instead, your brain does the processing work while you stay resourced and grounded in the present.

Research supports EMDR as an effective treatment for PTSD, complex trauma, anxiety, and relational patterns rooted in past experience. The World Health Organization, the American Psychological Association, and the Department of Veterans Affairs all recognize it as a first-line trauma treatment.

We are not going to force your nervous system to go somewhere it isn't ready to go.
How I work

A relational, adaptive approach

My approach to EMDR is integrative and IFS-informed — meaning the work is nonlinear, relational, and carefully paced around your nervous system's capacity. For complex or attachment trauma especially, the process looks less like a protocol and more like a collaboration between us and the different parts of your internal system.

1

Stabilization & Safety

We begin by building nervous system regulation, grounding skills, and internal safety. Many clients with complex trauma learned to survive through overfunctioning, shutdown, hypervigilance, or self-protection — we work carefully within your system's capacity.

2

Understanding Protective Parts & Patterns

Before processing trauma memories directly, we often explore the protective strategies that developed around them. This may include parts work, attachment patterns, emotional blocks, or nervous system responses that helped you survive.

3

Processing Traumatic Memories

Using EMDR and other integrative approaches, we process experiences that continue to feel emotionally stuck or unresolved. The goal isn't to erase memory — it's to help your nervous system relate to it differently.

4

Integration & Reconnection

As processing unfolds, many clients begin feeling more connected to themselves, their emotions, relationships, and bodies. Therapy becomes less about managing symptoms and more about living with greater flexibility, authenticity, and ease.

EMDR follows an 8-phase model as its clinical foundation. For single-incident trauma, the process can sometimes move relatively quickly. For attachment or developmental trauma, the process is often slower, more relational, and focused first on building safety and stability before memory processing begins.

EMDR may be a good fit if you're experiencing…

Intrusive memories or flashbacks from past events
Anxiety or reactivity that feels disproportionate to the moment
Relational patterns you can't think your way out of
A sense that old experiences are still running the show
Chronic shame or self-blame that insight hasn't touched
Emotional shutting down or numbness in close relationships

Common questions about EMDR

Do I have to relive my trauma in detail?

No. EMDR doesn't require you to describe your experiences in depth. You hold the memory in mind while the bilateral stimulation does its work — you're not retelling a story.

Where do EMDR sessions take place?

I offer EMDR in-person in Portland, OR (801 NE Alberta St). Video sessions are also available for clients throughout Oregon and Washington using remote bilateral stimulation methods.

How many sessions does EMDR take?

It varies. Some single-incident traumas resolve in relatively few sessions. Complex or developmental trauma takes longer — we work at your pace, building capacity along the way. There is no predetermined timeline.

What if I've tried therapy before and it didn't help?

EMDR works differently than talk therapy. Many people who have done significant insight work find it opens a different door — processing at the level where patterns are actually stored, rather than just understanding them.

What makes your approach different from standard EMDR?

My approach is IFS-informed, meaning I work with the protective parts of your system before and alongside trauma processing — not just targeting memories in sequence. For many clients with complex or relational trauma, this makes the work feel safer, more grounded, and more sustainable.

If you're curious whether EMDR might be right for you, a free consultation is the best place to start.

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